Views on Nudity - A Womens Perspective
In continuation with my article on "Views on Nudity" published on Dec 08 of 2007 under "Views N Opinions"
Feb 25 0f 2008 (After the suggestive comment from "Cutie Pie" one of my favorite readers)
Hmm, the lady "Cutie Pie" introduced me to an altogether different view - a view on nudity from a women's eye.
As per her (Cutie Pie) girls including womens do also fantasize about naked guys. They often look and enjoy a naked male body though in secrecy.
I mean to say as per her ( a girls) perspective to see nudity, it's also in the mind of girls to see and behold the beauty of a naked body - a male one though. She told me that girls do possess and hide pictures of naked male models much in the same manner as guys do it. They also think much in the same way and process as males do.
So, what I believe is they also might be fantasizing we males the same way as we do seeing them.
The difference (as per me) being guys enjoy it in the company of their male friends and in bathrooms. Girls (as per Cutie Pie) enjoy it in secrecy and in their minds.
I'd like to thank "Cutie Pie" for giving me this Voyeuristic look into a girls mind and her bed room.
Just to makes things a little more crystal, I'll give you the exact comment by "Cutie Pie":
cutie pie... said...
well..i wouldn't say i was comfortable reading it..not in the least but afterall truth will always remain truth and its exactly what you hav written..so i read it all.but hav you ever questioned y only gals n not boys i mean..atlaest i hvnt ever heard ne of the gals..going thruh nude male photographs..thoh this might also be happening where gals hide such photographs..like boys hide dat sort of photographs of gals..i mean even we are human beings..den y is it dat we still liv under dat shadow where gals r lukd down upon wen such things happen but its fine wen its a guy..its disgusting coz its just we who shud b blamed n no one else..so as u mentioned nothing's bad unless u percieve it in dat way..afterall its "BEAUTY LIES IN THE EYES OF THE BEHOLDER.."..ITS REALLY INTERESTING..so all said n done i liked it but dont b gender biased,concentrating only on gals..boys shud also b mentioned in this so dat it mirrors just everything in a much beautiful manner...isn't it???keep it up..
Monday, February 25, 2008
Friday, February 15, 2008
Dating - Love - Marriage - Kids
The Indian (side of the world wide) Dating Story.
(If you're "She", please forgive me for being truthful. I have written it as it came to my mind and keeping honesty with my heart and soul. There might be content in this story or rather which my mind forced me to think of you - which might hurt you. However, I believe the beginning of a wonderful relationship should be with truth and for that I can take any punishment that you might deem fit).
Hope we continue to nurture this wonderful relation thats budding...
“Are you dating me then”? She asked. Nope, it’s just like for the sake of writing, I said.
The truth was that I was actually thinking of…
Prelude:
At some point of time or the other, every person in this world needs and searches for a partner. The partner should match his or her criteria exactly with no wild cards.
At the age of 27, half settled in life, meeting thousands of prospective partners, being infatuated by childhood crush’s and after being in love and betrayed for good, even I’m looking for that special someone.
Like every other ordinary person, I’m also trying, Orkut, Yahoo Messenger, Flopper and hordes of other social networking sites and methods to meet that one person who will fit into my exact “Search” criteria.
I dumped a lot of girls and another double number of girls dumped me. So, even the searching process is getting dull by each passing day. And I had started to love staying single. At least I can confirm that I was NOT desperately trying to get a partner.
Hmmm, but I’m still using “Orkut” for being in touch with good old friends. Scouting through my friend’s - friend’s list, checking through profiles of good looking girls, girls who might fit into my “Search” criteria to find that one special someone.
Like many others even I’m joined to many online communities.
Finding Her:
It was, may be a month back from today and I was going through the members list of one of my favorite online communities.
I happened to spot a girl and/or lady with a very peculiar online name (which, later I found out that it is in French and had a very beautiful meaning in English). What interested me more than her “Online Name” is the community she was a member of. Over that she was from my part of the world. I got an interest in her. She had an “Imposter” picture pasted to her profile page – I knew that.
Men, will always be men. Wow! Let’s try wooing her. I’ve nothing to lose if I fail. So I scrapped her first “Are you from XYZ place?”
12/6/07
Myself:
from Sambalpur? Gr8 to know people from my part of the world...what do you do in BBSR then? study? work? or settled in BBSR?
She never replied. After about three days, I sent her a friend’s request. No replies still. I used to check through her profile every day and was waiting eagerly for her to accept my “Friend’s Request”.
Her description about herself matched about 80% my “Search” criteria. I was getting a bit impatient lest I shouldn’t lose her before I find her.
It was going to be about a month, one day I just decided to give it one last chance before letting her go into oblivion.
12/25/07
Myself:
Wish you a Very Happy and Merry Christmas
So I scrapped her “Request accept nayin karbar hele reject karba sina, pending rakhikiri kayen kaam?” that’s in a local dialect of the “Oriya” Language in India which means “If you do not wish to accept the friend’s request, better reject it. It doesn’t make sense keeping it pending”.
Jan 19
Myself:
I think you have a friends request pending in your home page. Nai Add karbar hele reject karba sina pending rakhikiri kaien kaam?
Fuhget that bitch – I said to myself. Almost 90% the girls are same in nature. Keep seeking for more attention. Attention – ma foot. I’m not gonna give her a shit if she doesn’t even care to reject my friendship with a courtesy note. I have seen lot-o-girls in ma life and that has made me wiser in terms of dealing with girls.
About five days and – Oh My Good God – I had a reply from her – “I didn’t got any friend’s request from you sir”.
Jan 26 She:
i hav not got ne frd request 4m u sir..
So nice of her. Again a “Men’s heart” (bloody damn this heart) is at work and his brain has gone down the balls. I was saying to myself “so nice of her” for a single word that she wrote - “Sir”.
Is the gal really so nice? C’mon girls can’t be so nice – if she is at the very first conversation – take my word – it’s a boy out there, pretending to be a girl and have some fun playing and watching you drown in love with HER?
Ok, lets give her a benefit of doubt. I tried sending a friends request again. And got a response from “Orkut” which after that episode changed the whole situation:
Add friend
We are awaiting a response You have already added this person, but we have not yet received a response to your offer of friendship. Please be patient.
When I tried to re-check in my “Friends List”, This is what I saw:
Jan 27
She:
She----> bhubaneswar, orissa India waiting for "She" to approve friends The above is what I'm getting when I try to add you again...
So, it was either she doesn’t want to accept my friendship and hence lying that she hasn’t received my request, or, there are some technical problems between our two accounts.
I clearly let her know that there can’t be any technical snags as far as my knowledge about working of “Web Sites”. So she should accept the “Friends Request” that I sent her or send me one from her side.
She replied again:
Jan 27
She:
havnt got ne request 4m u..
Reply
Let’s do some background verification work. Let’s get sleuth!!!
As I scouted through the scrapbook of this lady, I found that she has got a history of “Not Accepting” any one’s friends request and also has the same tendency to lie that she hasn’t received any at all.
Oh! What an Idea! This girl is pre determined not to entertain any guys. Cool!
So, leave her alone!!!
Dating Still:
Oh-ma God!! On the morning of Feb XY, Just-outta- the blue, I got a chat window popping out from my google talk with the message : “ I really didn’t receive any requests from you” Guess who was writing?
Man, I can’t believe this girl was chatting (or may be interested in chatting) with me. It was me who scrapped her first, I confess, but straight away chatting? Scrapping is like receiving an SMS from any stupid fellow. You can’t help receiving those nasty scraps. But Chat? You have the full control either to accept or deny or not top respond to any chat request.
So, this girl is coming out-of-her-cocoon. I’ll help her become and fly as a beautiful butterfly. Determined I was!
*****Well the story, at present, is running just a little ahead of this. Will keep posting as and when I real mile is covered*****
(If you're "She", please forgive me for being truthful. I have written it as it came to my mind and keeping honesty with my heart and soul. There might be content in this story or rather which my mind forced me to think of you - which might hurt you. However, I believe the beginning of a wonderful relationship should be with truth and for that I can take any punishment that you might deem fit).
Hope we continue to nurture this wonderful relation thats budding...
“Are you dating me then”? She asked. Nope, it’s just like for the sake of writing, I said.
The truth was that I was actually thinking of…
Prelude:
At some point of time or the other, every person in this world needs and searches for a partner. The partner should match his or her criteria exactly with no wild cards.
At the age of 27, half settled in life, meeting thousands of prospective partners, being infatuated by childhood crush’s and after being in love and betrayed for good, even I’m looking for that special someone.
Like every other ordinary person, I’m also trying, Orkut, Yahoo Messenger, Flopper and hordes of other social networking sites and methods to meet that one person who will fit into my exact “Search” criteria.
I dumped a lot of girls and another double number of girls dumped me. So, even the searching process is getting dull by each passing day. And I had started to love staying single. At least I can confirm that I was NOT desperately trying to get a partner.
Hmmm, but I’m still using “Orkut” for being in touch with good old friends. Scouting through my friend’s - friend’s list, checking through profiles of good looking girls, girls who might fit into my “Search” criteria to find that one special someone.
Like many others even I’m joined to many online communities.
Finding Her:
It was, may be a month back from today and I was going through the members list of one of my favorite online communities.
I happened to spot a girl and/or lady with a very peculiar online name (which, later I found out that it is in French and had a very beautiful meaning in English). What interested me more than her “Online Name” is the community she was a member of. Over that she was from my part of the world. I got an interest in her. She had an “Imposter” picture pasted to her profile page – I knew that.
Men, will always be men. Wow! Let’s try wooing her. I’ve nothing to lose if I fail. So I scrapped her first “Are you from XYZ place?”
12/6/07
Myself:
from Sambalpur? Gr8 to know people from my part of the world...what do you do in BBSR then? study? work? or settled in BBSR?
She never replied. After about three days, I sent her a friend’s request. No replies still. I used to check through her profile every day and was waiting eagerly for her to accept my “Friend’s Request”.
Her description about herself matched about 80% my “Search” criteria. I was getting a bit impatient lest I shouldn’t lose her before I find her.
It was going to be about a month, one day I just decided to give it one last chance before letting her go into oblivion.
12/25/07
Myself:
Wish you a Very Happy and Merry Christmas
So I scrapped her “Request accept nayin karbar hele reject karba sina, pending rakhikiri kayen kaam?” that’s in a local dialect of the “Oriya” Language in India which means “If you do not wish to accept the friend’s request, better reject it. It doesn’t make sense keeping it pending”.
Jan 19
Myself:
I think you have a friends request pending in your home page. Nai Add karbar hele reject karba sina pending rakhikiri kaien kaam?
Fuhget that bitch – I said to myself. Almost 90% the girls are same in nature. Keep seeking for more attention. Attention – ma foot. I’m not gonna give her a shit if she doesn’t even care to reject my friendship with a courtesy note. I have seen lot-o-girls in ma life and that has made me wiser in terms of dealing with girls.
About five days and – Oh My Good God – I had a reply from her – “I didn’t got any friend’s request from you sir”.
Jan 26 She:
i hav not got ne frd request 4m u sir..
So nice of her. Again a “Men’s heart” (bloody damn this heart) is at work and his brain has gone down the balls. I was saying to myself “so nice of her” for a single word that she wrote - “Sir”.
Is the gal really so nice? C’mon girls can’t be so nice – if she is at the very first conversation – take my word – it’s a boy out there, pretending to be a girl and have some fun playing and watching you drown in love with HER?
Ok, lets give her a benefit of doubt. I tried sending a friends request again. And got a response from “Orkut” which after that episode changed the whole situation:
Add friend
We are awaiting a response You have already added this person, but we have not yet received a response to your offer of friendship. Please be patient.
When I tried to re-check in my “Friends List”, This is what I saw:
Jan 27
She:
She----> bhubaneswar, orissa India waiting for "She" to approve friends The above is what I'm getting when I try to add you again...
So, it was either she doesn’t want to accept my friendship and hence lying that she hasn’t received my request, or, there are some technical problems between our two accounts.
I clearly let her know that there can’t be any technical snags as far as my knowledge about working of “Web Sites”. So she should accept the “Friends Request” that I sent her or send me one from her side.
She replied again:
Jan 27
She:
havnt got ne request 4m u..
Reply
Let’s do some background verification work. Let’s get sleuth!!!
As I scouted through the scrapbook of this lady, I found that she has got a history of “Not Accepting” any one’s friends request and also has the same tendency to lie that she hasn’t received any at all.
Oh! What an Idea! This girl is pre determined not to entertain any guys. Cool!
So, leave her alone!!!
Dating Still:
Oh-ma God!! On the morning of Feb XY, Just-outta- the blue, I got a chat window popping out from my google talk with the message : “ I really didn’t receive any requests from you” Guess who was writing?
Man, I can’t believe this girl was chatting (or may be interested in chatting) with me. It was me who scrapped her first, I confess, but straight away chatting? Scrapping is like receiving an SMS from any stupid fellow. You can’t help receiving those nasty scraps. But Chat? You have the full control either to accept or deny or not top respond to any chat request.
So, this girl is coming out-of-her-cocoon. I’ll help her become and fly as a beautiful butterfly. Determined I was!
*****Well the story, at present, is running just a little ahead of this. Will keep posting as and when I real mile is covered*****
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